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Official Obituary of

Shirley Roshel (Lake) Caven

March 8, 1939 ~ December 13, 2024 (age 85) 85 Years Old

Shirley Caven Obituary

Shirley R. Caven, affectionately known as 'Mom-mom' and 'Mommy,' passed away peacefully on December 13, 2024, in Hurlock, MD at the age of 85.

Shirley was born in Dorchester County, Maryland, on March 8, 1939, to her mother Irene Lake and father, Spencer Jones. She was lovingly raised by her stepfather, Melvin Lake, alongside her mother. Shirley eventually moved to Hurlock, MD, where she began her career as a line worker at the John Wright Factory. She later pursued her true calling as a hairstylist, a passion and talent she cherished throughout her lifelong career until her retirement in 2005.

Known for her infectious humor, unfiltered commentary and love of bingo, Shirley brought joy and laughter to everyone around her. She especially treasured spending quality time with her family, friends and loved ones.

Shirley is predeceased by her beloved husband of 46 years, David Caven and her son, Allen Lake.

Shirley leaves behind a loving family to celebrate her memory: her brothers; Kenneth Moses and George Wright and his wife Brenda and her sister Lucretia Johnson; her aunt Emma; her grandchildren; Montwaine, Telicia, Donshirl, Nikita, Lashonda, Vance Jr., Paulton, and Damon; her great-grandchildren, Monisha, Marquise, Jalen, Trinity, Meah, Amir, Tykee, Tevion, Amoree, Damien, Dominique, Ziyah, and Zyasia; goddaughter Dalzina; cousins, Tonydra and Helen; her stepdaughters, Arletta and her husband Charles, Marlyn and her husband Ransford, and Carlene and her husband Jeffrey; and her daughter-in-law, Tracy Lake. She is also survived by extended family members and dear friends who will cherish her memory and the joy she brought into their lives.

Shirley’s presence will be deeply missed, but her legacy of love, laughter, and devotion to her family will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

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Services

Open Viewing
Saturday
December 28, 2024

10:00 AM to 11:00 AM
International House of Worship, INC.
26321 Williamsburg Rd
Federalsburg, MD 21632

Funeral Service
Saturday
December 28, 2024

11:00 AM
International House of Worship, INC.
26321 Williamsburg Rd
Federalsburg, MD 21632

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